40 odd years ago, a couple of crazy, small town teenagers caught each other's eye from a distance and both instantly liked what they saw.
They started dating at the ripe old ages of 14 and 15 and spent their high school days as a googly-eyed couple soaking up all the joys of being young and in love. They grew up together during those years and made tons of memories - she cheered for him at football games, he drove her around in his mama's white Chevy Impala, and they attended all school functions hand-in-hand (with corsages and over sized bow ties perfectly in place).
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Once this pair graduated high school and started college in their hometown, there was no stopping them. Pretty soon they realized that they wanted to be together forever.
The spent their college years working, going to class, and spending time at their fraternity and sorority houses. She was the sweetheart for his, he was a little brother for hers. They made lifelong friends and when they weren't busy gazing into one another's eyes - they lived life to the fullest.
By the end of college, the two were engaged to be married. And before they knew it, the time had come for a wedding. The night before the big day, they rehearsed and dined with their closest family and friends, who could see the exictement written all over their faces.
They smiled with smiles that went all the way up to their eyes.
The next morning (which happens to be 30 years ago today), they met at the church they both grew up in and pledged their lives together before the God they both loved. They promised to love one another, in good times and in bad, and when the preacher prounounced them husband and wife, they kissed twice in a quick succession.
A practice they still take part in today.
This pair of newlyweds savored their new lives as a young married couple, but after 2 short years, they recieved the exciting news - they would soon become a family of 3. Nine months later, on a hot Georgia night in July, the couple welcomed a perfect baby boy.
It was in those moments they realized that this was what they were meant for. They knew they had just embarked on what would be the greatest journey of their lives - and it had only just begun.
They loved every second with their happy baby boy. He was just a little bundle of joy and sweetness. His favorite past times were playing with any type of ball, swimming, and eating. He also had adorable and he knew how to use it.
When their little man got to be about 3 years old, they couple recieved some unexpected but extremely welcomed news: they were going to be adding another babe to their bunch! All the doctors predicted that soon their handsome little boy would be getting a brother - so they spent the next 9 months (and 20 extra days) assuming the doctor's guesses were true. Cries of complete shock and sheer joy rang out on a cool night in March when the doctor yelled out...
"She's a keeper!"
They had their baby girl.
The little girl instantly became the apple of her daddy's eye and a permanent appendage to her mama's side. She was their "Sweet Babe" and she loved to laugh and adored her Bubbum.
As one can see, she was quite the withdrawn and quiet child, and many wondered why she was Chinese.
The years passed by and the couple enjoyed watching their children grow up. They never missed a dance recital, football game, or school program. They cheered the loudest, hugged the hardest, and their love for each other and their children could stand up against anyone.
Throughout all the years of high school, college, and into adulthood their children never doubted their love for one moment and grew up having great love and respect their parents, and wanting to make them proud. They knew the gift they had been given in parents such as these, and they did not want to take it for granted.
They also just enjoyed their parents for the crazy people they are. It was always their desire to spend as much time as they possibly could laughing and eating and talking and cooking and laughing with them.
A desire that they still possess today.
In fact, even now, their son has a deep love for his mama, and their daughter is the poster child for a daddy's girl.

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And the girl and her mama? Well, they are best friends. And the boy and his daddy? They are carbon copies of one another, and each other's closest confidant.

Yes, 30 years ago today, two people started on a journey that evolved into this...

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And while they have so much to show for these past 30 years of marriage and 28 years of parenthood, their journey has not been without storms. Their marriage is not perfect and their children are certainly not perfect, but they stayed committed to their family and getting through the tough times - whatever it took. They grew up together, had babies, raised them to be competent, responsible, and loving adults, and they found a way to laugh through it all.
After 30 years they are still laughing, still wanting to eat supper together, still arguing about ridiculous things, and still discussing their crazy children. Especially the one with no job that lives with them.
She still laughs at the jokes he's told for years.
He still says I love you at the end of each call and each time they part.
And they
still gaze into each other eyes with a love that will last way past 30 years.
Happy 30th Anniversary to the greatest people I know.
I love you,
Jenna Babe :-)